The Best Reason to Blog — 2015 Edition

by Jami Gold on November 26, 2015

in Random Musings

Path through autumn leaves with text: Finding Meaning

Today is Thanksgiving in the U.S. The day we eat too much food, roll our eyes at the antics of our extended family, and think about all the things we’re grateful for. Or in my case, try not to let my pending NaNoWriMo loss dampen my enjoyment of the day. *sob*

(Yes, it’s true. There is absolutely no way for me to catch up on NaNoWriMo words unless someone has a Time Turner I can borrow. Anyone? No? I guess I just need to chill and accept my loss with grace. *sigh* It’s a good thing my goal this year is to finish my story and not necessarily win NaNo. That goal is still in reach. *whew*)

This Thanksgiving post is now an annual tradition on my blog. Five years ago, I revealed that the best reason for me to blog is all of you.

The post four years ago reiterated that point with my gratitude for all the friends I’ve made via blogging and social media. Three years ago, I confessed my love of the blogging format because of the connections possible. Two years ago, I revealed that blogging for you pushes me—in a good way. Last year, I expressed my gratitude for the connections we make despite meeting only online.

And gee, what a surprise! All of you are still the best reason to blog! *smile*

The Power of Connections

This past year was huge for me—I finally became a published author! Four times over in fact. *grin*

But 99 percent of what made those four release days special was sharing the support and excitement with those I’ve connected with online and throughout the writing world. It was the shared tweets and posts, the comments of support and congratulations, and the mutual squee-ing that made those days fun.

In other words, the connections we form give meaning to our experiences. There’s a reasons Facebook and Instagram are popular sharing platforms.

Forget the phrase, “If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?” For many of us, the reality is, “If something interesting happens to us and no one is around for us to share it with, did we fully experience it?”

For me, I know those release days would have tick-tocked by like any other day if you weren’t with me. I’m not a big-time author, I don’t have a publisher behind me, and I haven’t had any release parties, so those encouraging notes were the only special events of the day.

Looking at sales numbers? Eh, that’s not meaningful to me.

(I’ve often talked about how I don’t pay attention to numbers—blog traffic, Twitter followers, etc., and sales numbers fall into that same black hole of my mind. I’d blame my dislike of math, but really, I don’t see my failure to obsess over numbers I can’t control as a bad thing. *wink*)

Sharing the day with you? That’s meaningful to me.

Thank you, sincerely, for every book review, comment, tweet, Like, or share of this past year. I can’t emphasize enough how much I appreciate our connections on various topics and events. *smile*

The Power of Sharing

I’ve also been blessed with many generous guest posters this year, especially during my attempted vacation this summer (which I managed to enjoy despite the whole family becoming sick) and during this NaNoWriMo month.

I want to send out mega-thanks to all of my recent guest posters for sharing their knowledge and expertise:

Even though I’m not going to win NaNo, I’m still getting more words done on my story than I would have without their help. And even better, we all learned something beyond our experience because they chose to share what they know. Win-win!

So as you finish up NaNo or enjoy this weekend, just know that I’m most grateful to all of you and the special meaning you bring to my life. Thank you! *hugs internet*

Happy Thanksgiving to my U.S. readers
and Happy Thursday to everyone else. *smile*

Do you ever feel like experiences mean more if you share them? Do you have people to share your writing journey with? Do you appreciate when others share their knowledge and expertise? What connections are you most grateful for? Is there anything special you’re grateful for this year?

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Cobalt-Blue November 26, 2015 at 11:53 am

I’ve considered starting a blog. My biggest problem is that I’m a curmudgeon and heart. I tend to get irritated and be irritating to people online and off. That is why I’m very careful with my Cobalt-Blue Facebook page to stay away from sensitive subjects. (Heck, I can even tick off Star Trek fans. My friends accuse me of being Jeff Dunham’s ,Walter character.)

As for Nanowrimo, HANG IN THERE AND DON’T GIVE UP. My goal this year was to finish one novel and get at least 50k on a second one. Made that earlier this week. First novel was 52K and finished it on the 13th. I’m 66k into my second one now, should finish it at around 130k. Both of them are sequels to previous works. The first is the sequel to two novellas in my Feline Factor universe and this second one is the second book in my Godstones universe. This year, they seem to have written themselves.
Much like you, I’m a seat of my pants writer and am sometimes surprised at where a novel heads. Luckily my best friend who is also my wife is willing to help me out with ideas and sometimes slap me down and say, “that’s a bad idea.” Many times she helps me roleplay out a scene to see how it would go. I’ve not always won Nanowrimo. Some years, I just couldn’t do it. One year because of health issues, and another because I was simply too distracted. But I still keep a steady writing schedule. So don’t worry about Nanowrimo, worry about your story.

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Jami Gold November 26, 2015 at 1:27 pm

Hi Cobalt-Blue,

Thanks for sharing your experience! That “worry about the story” attitude is exactly why I’m not finished yet, so I absolutely agree. LOL!

I know what I need from this story, and I didn’t want to take shortcuts just because of the NaNo goal. I’ve won two other years, so I didn’t need to prove anything to myself either. 🙂 Thanks for the encouragement!

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Shantal November 26, 2015 at 11:58 am

Thank you for this inspiring post. I am a terrible blogger. In fact, I pretty much loathe it because I feel like I’m mainly shouting into space amidst all the chatter. No one can hear me and, frankly, why would they want to listen? I haven’t posted regularly enough to create a following and make friends. Again, I have to ask myself, what do I have that would make them interested in doing so? Again, thank you for helping me understand why blogging is important, not just because I’m trying to become a published author, but because blogging is where you’ll find some of your best friends. I would love to share a link to this post on my blog??? Happy Thanksgiving!

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Jami Gold November 26, 2015 at 1:38 pm

Hi Shantal,

On the other hand, I’m very much a “find what works for you” kind of person, so I’d never say that everyone should blog. For me, blogging fits my personality, what I enjoy doing, and my *cough* longwindedness. 😉 But that’s not everyone.

I’d say that it is important to find a way to connect with others–and blogging is good for building that “connection platform” on something we own, rather than a place like Facebook–but if another platform works better for us, that’s not the end of the world. 🙂

And yes, thank you for sharing a link! 😀

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Carmen Stefanescu November 26, 2015 at 12:38 pm

May you and your loved ones savor all that is rich…may the festivities come alive with the cornucopia of hope, faith and goodwill! Happy Thanksgiving!
And Happy Writing!

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Jami Gold November 26, 2015 at 1:39 pm

Hi Carmen,

Aww, thank you! I wish you and yours the best as well! 🙂

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dolorah November 26, 2015 at 6:14 pm

It has been a great year, yeah?

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Jami Gold November 26, 2015 at 6:54 pm

Hi Dolorah,

LOL! Yes, it has. 😀 I hope your year has been wonderful as well!

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Davonne Burns November 26, 2015 at 7:15 pm

I know I’m certainly thankful for your blog and for you. You’ve inspired me on so many levels and I look forward each week to your posts (and your lovely guests as well).

Hang on to your personal goal for NaNo! I know it’s hard to have to realize the 50K isn’t going to be reachable. I myself had to scale way back and just be happy with what I’ve accomplished so far. You are writing, and that’s what matters. ^_^

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Jami Gold November 26, 2015 at 11:16 pm

Hi Davonne,

Aww, thank you so much for the kind words! 😀 And yes, you’re absolutely right about focusing on what matters. Thanks for the encouragement! 🙂

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Cobalt-Blue November 26, 2015 at 7:43 pm

Well, I hope that you and yours and everyone on this site had a happy and productive Thanksgiving. It’s been a good day all around.

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Jami Gold November 26, 2015 at 11:17 pm

Hi Cobalt-Blue,

Thank you so much! And I hope everyone had a wonderful day as well–including you! 😀

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Serena Yung November 26, 2015 at 11:34 pm

Yay! It was great getting to know you too, Jami. 🙂 Yeah, social media and blogging really help you make friends with similar interests. Joining writer Facebook groups this year was very nice, definitely got to know a lot of people, and I find I really enjoy posting and commenting in Facebook groups, especially commenting. The Chinese martial arts novels group was great too, and it really did increase my self-confidence in communicating in Chinese, haha, as the other people seemed to have absolutely no problem understanding me, and I had absolutely no problem understanding them as well!

I joined groups on demisexuality too, and that was great because you can talk about things that you ordinarily wouldn’t talk to your friends about, lol; it was very enlightening to hear other demisexuals share their experiences, and haha, I’m not alone in thinking that James Bonds’ relationships develop astonishingly quickly. ^_^”

And yes! Sharing happy news with friends, even if it’s just a Facebook status update, makes me happier too! Though sometimes if a friend seems to “under-react”, you might go :/ But in general, it’s great to share the joy. 😀

Btw, I found another great song, “Paint it Black” by Ciara. It’s the main ending song for the movie “The Last Witch Hunter”, and it’s fantastic novel-writing music! (I also enjoyed writing to Pokemon Gameboy battle music, as it’s fast-paced and exciting, but that’s another story, haha.)

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Jami Gold December 5, 2015 at 9:24 pm

Hi Serena,

Yay! I’m glad you’re connecting with so many online. Ooo, I’ll have to check out that song too. 🙂 Thanks for stopping by, and thank you for all of your friendship over the years!

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Kassandra Lamb November 27, 2015 at 1:52 pm

Ah, someone else who tends to ignore the numbers. You hit the nail on the head as to why. I can’t control them so why even pay attention to them. Thanks again for letting me guest post. I always have a blast when I hang out at your place, Jami!

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Jami Gold November 28, 2015 at 8:13 am

Hi Kassandra,

Exactly! Why drive myself crazy about something I can’t control? 🙂 And I always love having you here–anytime, my friend!

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Jon November 30, 2015 at 4:14 pm

Couldn’t you slip over into the mythos plain for that extra bit of time you need for NaNo?

I am grateful for so many things. Here, it is appropriate for me to say, as a reader, that I am grateful for creative writers everywhere, in every genre, who create the imaginary worlds readers get to visit.

Jon

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Jami Gold December 1, 2015 at 4:51 pm

Hi Jon,

LOL! about the Mythos plane. I wish! (Although, the time lines do run parallel to some extent, so I’m not sure how much it would help. 😉 )

I finished up NaNo over 30K, so…respectable given all the other projects I was juggling at the same time, I think? 🙂 (I was finishing up a story, and there weren’t 50K words left to write in it anyway.)

And yes! I agree with you on being grateful for creative authors who give us worlds to explore. 😀 Thanks for stopping by!

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