Banned Books? Or Freedom to Write and Read?
This week is Banned Books Week, an annual event sponsored by the American Library Association celebrating the freedom to read. The ALA works with librarians, teachers, and community leaders to ensure that controversy doesn’t lead to book banning.
Many have already blogged about the political aspects of this event, such as what it means for readers to be able to seek out unpopular ideas and what it means for writers to have the freedom to express those ideas, so I’m tackling this issue from a less serious perspective. Sort of. *smile*
Freedom to Write
As writers, we know the importance of having the freedom to explore the ideas in our head. For many of us, our subconscious-muse doesn’t like being restrained from thinking wild (maybe even nonsensical) thoughts. Such restraint can freeze our creativity all together.
We all too easily think our work is crap already. We don’t need someone from on high telling us that our writing doesn’t meet a standard or breaks too many rules.
Fiction writing often is about bending or breaking rules. We break rules about sentence fragments, and we break rules about the existence of dragons. We can imagine ourselves a different gender, age, or ethnicity through various characters. We push the envelope to encourage people to think deeper about issues.
I’ve mentioned before that my stories often include at least one element that makes me uncomfortable. That’s okay. I enjoy knowing I have the freedom to do what’s right for the characters and the story.
Playing it safe won’t allow me to dig into my characters’ weaknesses, failures, or emotions. I have to be willing to push them to reveal the deeper truths that give my stories meaning, and that means I have to be willing to push myself—and those “rules.”
Between the edgy aspects of my characters and the paranormal/fantasy aspects of my stories, I can guarantee my stories would fall under someone’s definition of “should be banned.” (Some in my extended family would gleefully add me to that list—just for writing fiction, never mind the romance or the paranormal aspects.) Some of my characters follow no accepted religion, some don’t answer to human laws, and some of my characters swear, have pre-marital sex, or seem like a deviant.
(And some of my characters don’t do any of those things. It’s all about what’s right for the characters and the story, not about me breaking rules just for the sake of being edgy.)
I want the freedom to write my stories without worrying about the subjective preferences of one person or another. I trust that my stories will find their way to those who would enjoy them, and I’m fine with everyone else ignoring them. *smile*
Freedom to Read
Many of the challenges to ban certain books come down to those same subjective preferences. Maybe someone doesn’t like the religion or sex portrayed, simply because it doesn’t match their definition of normal. (Given that my motto is “Why be normal?” portraying only “normal” doesn’t hold much appeal for me. *grin*) Or maybe someone doesn’t think the subject matter is age appropriate. (But that makes the assumption that all kids of the same age have the same maturity level.)
Not all stories will appeal to or are appropriate for every reader. Some adults don’t want to read about profanity or sex, and some don’t mind those elements. Some teens (and even some preteens) are mature enough to handle the dark messages of, say, Hunger Games, and some aren’t. It shouldn’t be up to a random person to decide what we can or can’t choose to read.
Just because something doesn’t appeal to us doesn’t mean it shouldn’t exist. Like we discussed when comparing literary and genre stories, a preference should not lead to a judgment of value. Yet that’s exactly what banning books equals: a judgment of value based on personal preferences and subjective measures.
Celebrating Stories: What Some Don’t Want Us to Have
To celebrate these freedoms in the face of book-banning controversies, I want to take a moment and highlight the stories that others might want to ban, such as for the most common reasons:
- sexually explicit
- offensive language
- unsuited to age group
- violence
- homosexuality
- occult/Satanic themes
- religious viewpoint
- anti-family
Do any of your stories include elements that others might challenge for one of those reasons? Take a look at this list of the Top Ten Challenged Books of each of the past 13 years. Are any of those books on your “enjoyed” list?
For example, I enjoyed The Hunger Games, despite its supposed “religious viewpoint,” “insensitivity,” “occult/satanic,” etc. issues. (I’ll admit that enjoyed might be the wrong word for the trilogy because it was a hard read in many ways. However, the powerful story has stuck with me over time.) I also enjoyed Twilight despite its issues, and the Harry Potter series is one of my all-time favorites.
On the other side, I haven’t read another frequent target of book banners, Fifty Shades of Grey, because of the abusive relationship, ethical issues, and poor writing quality, but I still wouldn’t call for the books to be banned. Again, just because I dislike or disagree with something doesn’t mean it shouldn’t exist.
Heck, some want the entire romance genre to disappear. They say romance stories harm marriages (even though studies have proven the opposite), create harmful expectations (because “weak-minded women” can’t tell the difference between fiction and reality?), and don’t have any literary value (because a whole genre can be judged by someone’s preconceived ideas?).
There are too many who want us to feel guilty or ashamed of our reading (or writing) choices. So I want to take this opportunity to celebrate our reading choices, whatever they are, because choice is important.
We don’t have the right to go through life never being offended by anything we come across. That “right” would create a hideously bland world and would never allow for discussion, much less growth from outside ideas.
So let’s celebrate the stories that don’t appeal to everyone. Let’s celebrate the stories that some try to make us feel guilty or ashamed about but we enjoy anyway. Let’s celebrate the freedom of choice. *smile*
Do any of your stories contain elements that might make some want to ban them? How important to you and your creativity is the freedom to write what you want despite those controversial elements? Have you enjoyed any books on the Challenged Books list? How important to you is the freedom to read what you want? What “guilty” or “secret” pleasure reads do you want to celebrate?
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I was never afraid of my book being banned, but I did worry that my family would judge me for what I wrote. They’re mostly conservative Christian, and here I was creating a world where other gods were very real and powerful.
I’ve since gotten over my fear.
I don’t like the idea of banning books. It’d be better to educate and let people choose. Otherwise, our world may end up like one of those dystopian novels.
Hi Loni,
Exactly! I’ve read too many dystopian novels to know how that would turn out. 😉
My close family is very supportive of my writing, but beyond them, some in my extended family would be horrified. LOL! Many are not big readers at all, and if they do read, it’s non-fiction only. So you can just imagine how they’d react to my very spicy paranormal romances. 😉 Luckily, they live far away, and I hardly ever see them. Besides, I was the black sheep of the family since before I was born, so… *shrug*
Good for you in getting over your fear. 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
I want the freedom to write my stories without worrying about the subjective preferences of one person or another. I trust that my stories will find their way to those who would enjoy them, and I’m fine with everyone else ignoring them. *smile* This. Do any of your stories contain elements that might make some want to ban them? My most popular book right now—with more than 660k reads on Wattpad as of this writing—features a narrator who’s the product of incestuous rape and who lives in (legitimate) fear of experiencing the same. It’s first in a series that also features a narrator who is homicidally insane (book #2), and another who’s the “other” woman in a relationship (book #3). Book #4 opens with a liar and killer having a “Oh, shoot” moment because she got drunk enough to sleep the the guy she’s in love with. (He’s already married.) For my Destiny Walker books, the narrator is a teenage slave with severe PTSD and suicidal tendencies. It’s probably easier to tally which of my books don’t have ban-able elements. I’m well aware that some parents will deem my stories unsuitable for their children. Fine. But I’m of the opinion that sheltering does kids more harm than good. Sure, there are things you protect a child from, but a child needs to learn to think, and how are they going to do that if all they ever experience is the four walls of their parents’ brand of “normal”? Let them… — Read More »
Hi Carradee,
LOL! I know the feeling. I have a serial murderer as a hero in one, a rape culture in another, and seduction all around, not to mention lying galore. 🙂
My stories are about the choices we make when things aren’t black-and-white–and as you mentioned, the ability to think things through is important. Life isn’t black-and-white, and we might not be able to make good decisions if we’ve never been exposed to strategies for thinking through the pros and cons and consequences of gray-area options.
Many of the books on those lists are ones I read in school, and I appreciate that I wasn’t sheltered from them but instead taught how to analyze and think and come to my own conclusions. As you said, the freedom to read–for me–equals the freedom to have opinions. Thanks for sharing your insights!
And yikes—I didn’t mean to indicate others’ condescension = persecution. I changed tacks halfway through writing that and left the transition. *facepalm*
But anyway, if you never see anything or anybody who conflicts with your idea of “normal”, you’ll just come to believe that your “normal” = reality, which means you’ll react all the harsher when confronted with evidence that doesn’t match up, because that evidence will conflict with one of your core beliefs about the world.
Hi Carradee,
LOL! I’m so brain dead today that I didn’t even notice. *sigh*
Great point! Yes, a lack of variation in the information we expose ourselves to just results in a false belief about the world, and as we know from character generating, false beliefs cause problems. 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
I really don’t worry that my books will be banned. None of them fall into any of those categories.
Personally, I don’t like books with sexual content. It’s one of my biggest turn offs, and I’ll often drop a book completely if I find a sex scene in it. But that doesn’t mean those books should be banned. Heck, banning books often makes the book MORE desirable since people like looking into the Forbidden.
A fellow teacher of mine recently said that her high school banned “The Diary of Anne Frank” because it’s “too depressing.” Out of all the books in the world, that is probably one of the worst to ban. It’s historical. It’s talking about a piece of history. Are they going to ban talks about the Holocaust in history classes too? And actually, out of all the books to come out of the Holocaust, Anne Frank’s is probably one of the most uplifting, if you can call a Holocaust book “uplifting.”
Book banning is, in my opinion, just one action shy of the events in Fahrenheit 451.
Hi R.A.,
I have an older post about putting ratings on books (or labeling content in some way) because I think, as authors, we don’t do ourselves any favors if we mislead readers about the content of our stories. So I fully understand why you’d be upset to find a sex scene in a story without a hint of that content as part of the description.
As readers, we want the choice of what to read, and as authors, we should enable readers to make an informed choice. Maybe this list of controversial aspects could help us know what elements to make clear in our book description, whether that’s “Warning: Spicy sex” or “Note: Clean, inspirational Christian Romance.” 🙂
Ugh–that’s awful about banning The Diary of Anne Frank. Like you said, we need books like that or else we lose the context of history. Thanks for the comment!
That depends on where the ‘banning’ is occurring. If you mean no publication at all, then no, don’t ban. But if you mean in a school library where my kids are going to be turned loose without my supervision, then yes, there needs to be considerable selectivity in stocking the shelves.
Hi Melissa,
Unfortunately, in many communities, the only libraries are those connected to schools. (In my area, this is the case. All public libraries are attached to schools.) I fully support the ability of parents to choose for their own kids, but no one, in my opinion, should be able to choose for other people’s kids.
Just as much as some parents want to prevent their kids from being exposed to ideas before they’re ready, other parents want their kids to read books and then have conversations about the content. That’s personal choice.
As I mentioned in a comment above, I’ve previously written about the importance of giving enough context in the book description so people can make informed choices, and that includes the ability for parents to be able to tell from a book description whether they want their kids to read a book or not.
So I’d like to find a happy medium where parents have full veto power over their kids’ choices, but not have veto power over the rest of the community. I hope that makes sense. 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
Thirteen Reasons Why was amazing! I think everyone should read it.
I’m pretty sure most of my books would end up being considered “sexually explicit”, which is totally fine with me. If I didn’t want them that way, I wouldn’t have written them that way. But there are other elements, too – right now I’m getting ready to pitch a book about an assassin. She doesn’t just kill bad guys. She kills whoever pays her the most money. So you might say she has a morality issue 🙂 And a book I’m releasing next year is violent and deals with a looming communist threat from the former Soviet Union (oh, and it’s a romance, so there’s that sexually explicit part again).
The truly ironic thing, though, is the other story I’m working on, the MC is writing a research paper on the psychology of why books end up being banned – what is it about them that makes us afraid?
Hi Amanda,
Exactly! I write for adults, so I don’t temper the explicitness of my stories at all. But I’ve also had readers who say that they usually don’t like sexually explicit stories say they like mine because my spicy scenes aren’t gratuitous at all. They’re there (and can’t be skipped over) because important emotional issues are worked through in the course of the scene. That was my goal! 🙂
LOL! I love morality issues–very fun. 😀
Ooo, great question about why books are banned. The strange or different can be threatening to our sense of self or our beliefs. But I’ve always been of the opinion that challenges can make our beliefs stronger, as we examine why we believe what we believe despite varying thoughts and ideas. (I have a line almost like that in one of my stories. 🙂 ) Knowing why helps us internalize our beliefs and not just go along with the belief because it’s our default.
So I like being exposed to different ideas, but others don’t always feel the same. 🙁 Thanks for the comment!
I don’t think books of any type should be ban. I do however, think that some should be restricted to an age limit. But you know as well as I do that would be hard to enforce.
History shows that if you ban something people want it. When the restriction is removed, the need or want dissipates.
Banning a book makes me think that the next step will be burning. The only time a book should be burned is that you in the middle of artic freeze and your life depends on the fire.
Hi Mary,
I’d be fine with books having an age suggestion as part of their description (and encourage that, in fact), but to officially restrict books would be–as you said–difficult. Plus, as I mentioned in the post, I know some preteens mature enough for The Hunger Games, so how would an age restriction accommodate that variability?
I’m not saying a non-public, elementary-school-students-only library should carry those books. LOL! But in a public library, I don’t see how age restrictions would work. And as you said, restricting something just makes it more desirable.
LOL! at your reasons for burning a book. Agreed, but I’d probably still wince. 😉 Thanks for the comment!
Harry Potter?! Well, now that I think about it, I guess I can see why… but I adore Harry Potter. 🙂 I’ve also read the Hunger Games trilogy and the His Dark Materials books, as well as The Perks Of Being A Wallflower (which I also loved). I absolutely believe that readers should be free to choose whatever they want to read. Like you’d said, Jami, some subjects won’t appeal to everyone – and that’s OK. Some people love the sexual content and violence of, say, George R.R. Martin’s books. I didn’t mind it in the beginning, but as the series has gone on the excessiveness of both is starting to wear on me. Hmmmm, the WIP I’m working on right now… I haven’t thought about whether the material would make it “ban-worthy” (I’m being fascitious when I say that). It’s epic fantasy, so there’s sword-fighting and battles (violence), magic (occult??), discussion of one race’s nature-based religion (religious viewpoint) – and my target audience is YA, so I imagine the “unsuitable for age group” bit could come up… Well, I think I know where this is going then. *LOL* In some ways, though, you almost can’t worry about whether your stories will be banned. If you have an idea, and you love it and feel so passionate about it that you must write it, chances are people are going to love it. At the same time, chances are others won’t like it. You just have to be willing to take… — Read More »
Hi Sara,
LOL! Yep, I think you’re “doomed.” 😉 But as you said, we can’t worry about that risk. We can hope that those who don’t like our stories simply choose to ignore them, rather than try to ban them. 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
Great article! I tried to read 50 Shades, even bulled my way through six pages, but the writing was so atrocious I surrendered.
I loved the Hunger Games, but guess I missed the religious aspects. Pretty much straight sci-fi and political commentary to me.
Maybe *I* should be banned?
Hi Mike,
Yes, the “religious viewpoint” reason seems to include stories that don’t follow “standard” religious beliefs. In other words, simply by not showing that Christianity survived the dystopian apocalypse of the world, some took it as anti-Christian? Maybe? Not sure, that reason is a puzzler. 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
I saw a list of FB of books that have been banned by school libraries and they had me laughing, but I felt underlying horror. Books like Winnie the Pooh (“talking animals are an insult to God”) and Beatrix Potter’s bunny stories (bunnies of different colors sleep in the same bed which offended the Southern Baptists in the pre-civil rights days.)
The truth is there are always going to be people so ignorant they can be offended by anything. I recently read a comment by somebody who was offended by a book that used the word “fatuous” because they felt it was insulting to persons of size. 🙂
Banning any books can be a slippery slope, although I think the Canadian and UK taboos against child porn/incest/rape/bestiality is probably very sound. We don’t have such strict laws in the US and you see a lot of stuff on Smashwords that would be illegal in most countries.
What I do wish is that we could implement the ratings system you advocate: let people know if there’s torture or extreme violence before they buy. We have to judge by the covers and they don’t always let us know. Romance is a huge umbrella that now includes heavy-duty erotica. A monochrome cover with a man’s tie now means BDSM, but somebody not up on the latest covers wouldn’t know that. It would be nice if they’d let us know.
Hi Anne,
Wow. I haven’t seen that FB post, but it might have been something like this Buzzfeed post (although this post doesn’t include the Beatrix Potter books). Others on this list include The Giving Tree and Charlotte’s Web. *sigh*
You’re right though that ignorance can cause people to be offended, and this is another reason why I fear too much political correctness can do great harm. People can feel entitled, like they have the right to never be offended. Yet our individuality means that different things offend different people, and any attempt to avoid ALL offense leaves us with nothing.
I agree completely about the value of information for book descriptions, especially because book covers now more frequently don’t indicate the content. I can think of more erotic books with nondescript covers than I can with racy covers (which is exacerbated by authors’ desires to avoid the “erotic dungeon” of Amazon, where items don’t show up in lists or searches). That’s a shame for readers, and as authors, we need to ensure we’re giving people enough information to make educated choices. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your insights!
Some people want to ban romance as a genre?? Nooo don’t do that! I’ve only JUST gotten serious about romance writing! :O Lol. But seriously, romance is nice and many people who say they hate romance actually enjoy it secretly. Though it’s easier for them to allow themselves to enjoy it if the romance is couched under a different name, e.g. fantasy or action/adventure, haha. “We all too easily think our work is crap already. We don’t need someone from on high telling us that our writing doesn’t meet a standard or breaks too many rules.” Haha my writing insecurity/ security has changed over the years. At first I was more insecure and lacking in confidence in my work, even though people around me usually like my work. Later I became more secure because I can say my work is very good if you can define “very good” as “a story that makes Serena happy”, haha, but I still didn’t have much confidence that my stories would make others happy, and if someone says they like my story, I feel grateful and assume that I was just lucky that they liked it. But recently, I learned about the importance of believing in and respecting our own work. SO, I now think my stories are awesome to some people, good to some others, okay to some other people, and bad to yet some others, lol. So a range from awesome to bad depending on who the reader is! Actually I assume… — Read More »
Oh I forgot to say that one of the main subplots in my current series is about this banned book!!! Well it’s not officially banned, but women and girls are highly discouraged from reading it. But this book is the hero’s favorite book; both his little sister and his crush bugged him to let them read it, because they were so curious about this book that the hero loves so much, and since he loves them both (his sister and his crush), he puts up this “initial resistance” of “Oh, it’s not suitable for girls to read”, but he quickly gives in and indulges them and lets them read to their heart’s desire. During the hero’s parents’ generation, the ban/ discouragement for women was even more intense, but the hero’s mom still managed to secretly read it anyway, and she even reread it several times in her life because she loved it so much, haha. And—this book is banned because it contains many explicitly violent (tortures and murders, etc.) scenes and even one notable rape scene. So this book represents the book banner’s greatest nightmare, haha. It’s interesting that the hero, a guy who is very strict about moral principles (TOO strict, lol) would fave this book! It hints that he is secretly fascinated by dark stuff in contrast to his strong moral stances, lol. But he is quick to tell the heroine that he doesn’t love the book for those controversial elements; he loves the book because of its… — Read More »
Hi Serena,
Oh how interesting! 🙂 And that’s the thing–we can love, enjoy, or feel resonance from stories for many different reasons.
Lord of the Flies is a very difficult book, and yet the story stayed with me because of those difficulties. So I love talking about the story even though I didn’t “enjoy” it in the traditional sense. Thanks for the comment!
Hi Serena, LOL! Yeah, I wonder how many people who try to ban things do so just because they don’t trust themselves to not be tempted. 🙂 I’m with you in accepting that depending on the reader, my stories will be seen as somewhere between awesome and bad. LOL! I recently received feedback on one of my stories that pointed out every instance of telling, but like you, I don’t think telling is always bad. When I don’t want to emphasize an action, I’ll give a telling summary because the details of the action don’t matter. (Think of something along the lines of “At her confirmation, he closed the door.” The “at her confirmation” phrase is telling, but does it really matter how she confirmed? No? Then I’m all for telling.) I think the point is to be conscious of how we’re writing and why. If telling is our intent, that’s what we should do. 🙂 Ha! I like your definition of “being sympathetic to the reader.” I don’t like writing that’s deliberately obtuse or difficult, filled with dense $20 words. (Probably another reason I’m a genre girl. 😉 ) So I definitely agree that there’s a middle ground where we can tell the story we want to tell, but in a way that will work for most readers. Like you, I’m more open to things beyond our understanding, and I don’t see that as being anti-religious. In fact, those who believe they know all about the world seem more… — Read More »
Not much of what I write is in danger of being banned. I suppose you could make the argument that my books aren’t suitable for any age group. Seriously, though the only thing I do is make frequent use of foul language. @$&*! and #%@* are two of my favorite words. In my ebook Edge of the World, the two main characters drop f bomb after f bomb in a conversation until it’s noted that the question “Why?” technically constitutes an entire sentence without a swear word.
It’s funny though, I never get the complaint that there is a lot of foul language in Edge of the World. People are much more concerned with it’s size. “It’s kind of long, isn’t it?” I can only hang my head and surrender the point. It is kind of long.
(Forgive this last paragraph. It’s too embarrassed to come out from its parentheses. I just had to scratch a small itch. “They say romance stories harm marriages (even though studies have proven the opposite)” No, studies have SHOWN the opposite, not proved it. It can’t really be proved one way or the other. Sorry, sorry. I can be a pain in the @$$ about words sometimes. I once posted a 2000 word rant about how the word literally should be used.)
Hi Matthew,
LOL! at your language choices. I go with whatever my characters demand, so maybe I should feel grateful that none of characters are like that. 😉
(And no worries on your “itch” note! I actually had it typed out with “shown” during drafting, and then I changed it during editing–I can’t remember why. It was midnight by then and I’d hardly slept the night before. *sigh* Sometimes I’m amazed my posts make any sense at all. 🙂 ) Thanks for the comment!
This is why I never paid attention to religious markets because they don’t like anthropomorphic animals, whether in the paranormal realm like what you write, Jami, or the “Beatrix Potter” style tales I tell. Not all my animal characters are anthropomorphic, or it’s a hybrid of naturalistic and anthropomorphic. That’s part of me as a writer I can’t not do so I don’t focus on those markets for that reason. The only notable exception seems to be “The Berestain Bears” as they’re often put in the “Christian or spiritual” section of Barnes and Noble’s kid book areas (I’m a children’s author, just to clarify my points) Jami, THANK YOU for saying- “Some teens (and even some preteens) are mature enough to handle the dark messages of, say, Hunger Games, and some aren’t. It shouldn’t be up to a random person to decide what we can or can’t choose to read.” I would so NOT be able to have read “The Hunger Games” if it existed when I was a teen. I still can’t read it now at 27 because I’m far too chicken! Even so, part of me wants to read it simply because you told me about Peeta. As I’ve said before, I didn’t get into much YA because I most of the boys and men in YA felt so distant from me, and the fact that a book series this popular dared to have a non-barbarous guy (who wouldn’t participate in this “Reality Gladiator farce gone wild given… — Read More »
Hi Taurean,
I’m never sure whether to be amused, confused, or disappointed by the fact that even though Jesus was a storyteller of fiction (parables!), some want to use religion as a reason to take things too literally.
Yes, humanity includes such a wondrous variety that we need variety in our books to allow everyone stories they can relate to, like back when we were discussing diversity in fiction. If we allow only one definition of “normal” or “acceptable,” many will be left adrift from the power of storytelling.
As you said, we need the full spectrum of characters, not just “normal” with a few token LGBTQ exceptions. (And I think I just realized my father hero character I’ve mentioned to you before does all the cooking for his family. LOL!) While I was writing this post, I thought about that diversity discussion as well, so I’m glad to see that idea resonate with you too. 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
Thanks for replying, Jami, glad to know we’re in sync on this issue.
The good news (that I forgot to mention in my first comment) is that in picture books there’s a ever-increasing variety of books with nontraditional and outright atypical boys.
There’s also more positive and varied portrayals of fathers (not just the bumbling goofballs) in the picture book space. Far more than when I was a fatherless kid in the 90s.
I just want to see more of that in books for kids OLDER than 6!
Hi Taurean,
Good point! Many of the children’s books I can think of that portray diversity of some type are picture books, but chapter books and Middle Grade (and to some extent YA) seem to be more of a desert. Hopefully changes will spread. 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
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